Sacred Sexuality


Sacred Sexuality is my passion and the nectar of my ‘Awaken your Senses” programmes. As we, individually awaken our own senses to all of life, the 2 become 1 in relationship. The nectar of this union awakens a whole other realm…



Do You and Your Partner yearn for more Connection and Intimacy?

Sacred SexualityWould you like to take your relationship to the next level of intimacy?

Would you like to explore new ways of being together that take you both to heavenly states of ecstasy?


I am inviting you to explore Tantra’s path to Sacred Sexuality. Many of us are starving for deeper intimacy and connection – yet we are not fulfilled with our sex lives. I’m here to offer you a taste of what you yearn for. I’ll share with you the ancient Tantra Secrets made super modern for you to explore and deepen your connection and intimacy with your partner.

Relationships are an fundamental part of life, yet many of us are not taught how to be successful in them or were not given a hand book on how to make love. We all come from sex, yet we don’t talk about it. It’s even a taboo to talk about it.


well let’s talk about it!

✔ do you and your partner yearn for  deeper intimacy and connection?

Couple having a romantic rendezvous in a Hotel

✔ would you like to communicate more easily with eachother?

✔ do you know the common psychological intimacy roadblocks for men and women? and would you like to break through the recurring patterns to deepen intimacy?

✔ would you like to learn tools to be the God in the bedroom?

✔would you love your man to treat you like a Goddess?

✔ do you know why orgasm is so important?

✔ do you yearn to lose yourself in ecstatic waves of orgasmic bliss?

✔ would you like to learn the art of foreplay and last for longer?

✔ are you ready to learn simple tantric techniques, tools and teachings to expand your body, mind and soul?

✔ do you need to heal from sexual trauma and your partner is willing to help you in the healing process?




Why does this all matter? Everything in life is in relationship, there are masculine and feminine energies, there are opposites, like light and dark, sun and moon, man and woman. What I love about Tantra is it honours the paradox of the opposites and how they work together to bring about the whole. When you understand this, life becomes a dance between masculine and feminine and we all become more balanced and whole individuals. Rather than competing with each other.

I coach you in any area you choose wit him your relationship, this may be from communication to sexual union – they are all sacred sexuality.


For the Man


Shiva Lingham

Shiva Lingham

I share powerful Tantric tools and techniques to build your confidence, help you understand how to help your woman feel good and feel more pleasure, empowering you to be a better lover, so you feel like a God in the bedroom.

I’ll share with you secrets that unlock the mysteries of a woman. If your relationship needs this how you may be the sexual healer.

I introduce you to the sacred-ness of your Lingham, which is your penis in english. The lingham is translated as the wand of light. I teach you how to use your wand of light to illuminate your woman’s world so she feels good about herself, and opens to feel more pleasure.

You also learn how to awaken your primal sexual energy, harness it and channel it to last longer and experience higher states of ecstasy and even multiple or full body orgasms!

For the woman

I share powerful Tantric tools to help you feel good about your body, let go of shame, doubt, or fear. I teach you tantric techniques to awaken your senses and feel more alive, aroused and present in your body. I help you with simple yoga and tantra techniques to get out of your head and into the magic of your sensual body.

I empower you to re-connect with your inherent feminine loving-armsessence called Shakti. Shakti is the sexual creative life force and resides in the body at your sex organ in sanskrit (tantra and yoga language) called Yoni, translated as sacred space. I’ll teach you how your sacred space is the a place of deep worship and how to worship her and let her be worshipped.

I’ll help you to recognise if you are in your masculine energies and how to shift into your feminine, where you come into the flow.

You will learn tantric tools to move shakti to release orgasms, and then you learn to experience full body orgasms and multiple orgasms from anywhere in your body. Yep I’ll help you to speak your truth and ask for what you desire so your man will become the God in the bedroom!




You will both learn new ways to communicate where you feel seen, heard and met. Through this you build trust, deepen connection and intimacy in and out the bedroom.

You’l learn how the wand of light truly illuminates the sacred space, so you both experience a complete body, mind and soul connection. I like to call this soulful sex. Your sexuality is a gateway for deeper connection. There is nothing greater than two bodies coming together as a form of worship, where lovers become the god and goddess and honour eachother in union.

And more importantly when you ignite the passion in the bedroom, you will then be able to use these techniques in any area of your life to transform it!


who is this exclusive retreat for?

⚤ for couples who yearn for more with each other

⚤ for couples who need to save their relationship, because their at logger-heads

⚤ if you wish to take your relationship to another level of experience

⚤ if you both desire to experience greater intimacy and erotic connection

⚤ if you have low libido, or never experienced an orgasm

⚤ if you suffer with erectile dysfunction or pre-mature ejaculation



who is Michelle and why work with me?


my-storyHello, I am Michelle and a Tantra and relationship coach – I often ask people if they yearn for success, deeper connections, intimacy and vibrant energy? As well as having amazing sex?


Because that’s my secret to success! My husband and I share sacred Tantric sex at least three times a week! And it doesn’t have to be 9 hours like Sting! Tantra taught us how to tap into our primal sexual creative energy called shakti and use it as fuel to ignite all our dreams and desires.


Everyone wonders what it is and how to do it and that’s what I teach you.  For now I’ll say it begins with connection. There’s the irony so many people are disconnected from themselves and others.  I teach you how to connect and deepen intimacy in every room of your house, then just watch you’re whole life together blossom.


It wasn’t always like this for me. Like many women I didn’t feel seen or heard and didn’t feel I mattered. My first sexual experience was the complete opposite to my love-making now, I was seen, but my no was not heard. The Tantra methods I teach taught me to release the trauma and pain, re-program the script in my head and body so I could feel more confident, have more energy and how to express my truth.


I also understand men don’t always feel confident with a woman. That’s why I’m teach you the tantric methods that me and my husband practice to connect in our relationship. They take down the walls blocking you from experiencing a new realm of intimacy and connection.


My husband unlocked the door to my sensuality and sexuality through trust and commitment. I am going to teach you how. My husband was my sexual healer. Marvin Gaye truly did know about sexual healing and that’s why he wrote about it. Sex can be ecstatic, a portal to sublime states, yet first some healing and wounds may need to be bridged.


People even remark to me, I don’t know what you’re doing to your husband but we’ve never seen him looking so good…. Now you know our secret. My man is certainly the God in the bedroom and I feel like a goddess in every room!


So if you are ready for deeper connection and intimacy and to take your relationship to a new level of ecstasy, I assist you with simple yet profound Tantra Methods.



How we work together

Sacred Sexuality Awaken Your Senses Packageskiss

“The minute I heard my first love story I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.”-Rumi

Let me introduce you to the lover within you through my coaching. I use ancients Tantra, Taoism, Yoga practices that are proven over 1000’s of years to work.

HoneyMoon Package

You know when you first meet, there’s passion, longing, and urgency to be with one and other. Lovemaking is electric, you’re captured in the vibrancy of new flirtation, then after a while the honeymoon phase fizzles. how about exploring Sacred Sexuality methods that re-ignites the HoneyMoon phase no matter what phase of your relationship?


and if you never experienced the HoneyMoon phase then this is definitely for both of you!


Sexual Healing

This is for you if one or both of you have wounds to heal from sexual trauma or abuse. If it is the woman who has experienced trauma and freezes sexually, I teach you both ways to heal this. The woman to release the trauma from her body. The man to learn how to hold space as a sexual healer.




If you need to save your relationship. I coach you both to communicate that invites healing.



You have a few choices of how we meet.

?You can book an exclusive retreat with me in Barbados, where I live – where your primary focus is diving deep into Sacred Sexuality. I offer you a bespoke package with the amount of sessions you desire (a minimum of 8 is required).

? In person in Barbados, if you are on holiday or staying here. minimum of 4 Tantra Coaching sessions required

? Online in the comfort of your own home, with minimum 4 Tantra coaching sessions


I must emphasise, I teach you the methods, there is no nudity and I do not touch. I guide you to practice with each other and then you go and practice and that’s the fun part!


Are you both longing to explore sacred sexuality?


and learn new ways to deepen connection and intimacy?



yes? I’m offering you to find out how you may do this in your relationship with …


FREE Discovery Session 


with me to see if I can help you to deepen intimacy and connection with eachother… click the link above to arrange a 15 minute skype call and let’s discover what you want


 I look forward to working with you…


book below to get started if you wish…

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