My Story

Michelle Cross – My Story

Hi, I’m Michelle Cross!

Stories are the oldest form of healing art that exist, and I weave them often into many of my teachings, so here I am, sharing my story. but first, before the ‘acceptable’ story, here’s the juice…

Through Yoga, Tantra, Coaching or Teaching I turn the fears or doubts women have about their body’s, their sexuality or sensuality and unite them all in the spirituality of life. This union or coming together becomes the medicine for healing.

I share practices that work and make you feel amazing on or off the mat, in the bedroom or in the office. I offer you practices that I know work, because I have been using them for nearly 30 years. and I discover in the process that nothing is separate. That’s why I help you to heal your root beliefs about yourself, your body, your emotions and sexuality. Freud, the famous psychologist on sexuality said “Sigmund Freud says ” when we neglect unexpressed emotions, they will come forth in uglier ways”. Yes this is strong, yet how many women have unexpressed emotions because we have been taught ‘we are too emotional’ or to ‘be quiet’. I give you potent tools to give your energy, confidence and transform.

I primarily work with women who want more confidence, fun, freedom, aliveness, passion and the erotic in a spiritual path. Maybe that’s you, or maybe you don’t know you want this, but you are searching for something; whatever that something is, right?

Listen to my story or read on..

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud

was more painful

than the risk it took to blossom – Anais Nin

Now here’s the longer version of how I got to where I am. I’ was born in UK, yet now call the Caribbean island Barbados home since 2014. Barbados is my sanctuary, sacred base that allows me to work internationally, as a coach and teacher of Tantra and Yoga. I’m a dedicated teacher of Vinyasa Flow Tantra Yoga, a healer/massage bodyworker, a Tantra and Relationship Coach with nearly 30 years of experience in the field. I am also one of the very few Certified Isadora Tantra Coach™ by the late Psalm Isadora.

I teach powerful practices through Yoga, Tantra and bodywork that help you tap into your fullest potential and turn your traumas into triumphs, through my “Awaken your Senses” programs.

I view every woman as a Goddess, the highest practcie in Tantra is to see everyone as Divine, so if Goddess doesn’t land how about Queen.

I actively assists women on the quest for personal empowerment, to own their stories and step into their feminine energy.

Michelle CrossIt wasn’t always like this for me.

Growing up, I was a shy introvert and was taught that ‘children should be seen and not heard’ – the effects of which lasted well into my adulthood. Numbing that forced silence, in addition to the trauma of my first sexual experience – which occurred against my will – I turned to work as a method of coping. Immersed in the damaging trope of the strong independent woman, running my own business, exhausted and overworked, I was wholly unprepared for the change that the year 2009 had in store for me.

That year, I suffered a debilitating case of food poisoning, which caused my whole body to misalign, left me with auto-immune disorder of arthritis and plantar fasciitis. I was not able to walk or move without experiencing intense pain. I was this tight bud.

I interpreted this pivotal time in my life as the universe telling me to stop and slow down, and seek a new path. The new path I chose was the path of Feminine Tantra Practices. I also met my now husband the same year I started studying Tantra. Both have transformed my life. And the passion I have for both I share in my work.  T

In a rare but necessary move, I had to turn to someone for help: my mother. Doing so taught me not only how to surrender, but how to receive. This also healed my relationship with my mother. As I explored Tantra, which honoured the Goddess or Ma, the Mother you can see the relationship between my spiritual practices and healing the relationship with my own mother.

Tantra gave me the keys to dive deeper within myself to unlock the intimacy blocks I had and didn’t even realise. Through the practice I cultivated profound self-love. Then my husband unlocked the door to my sensuality and sexuality through trust and commitment.

I now share all the Tantra secrets every woman yearns for in a down to earth way. I am living proof you can have it all!

I want you to know I see you, I hear you and you so matter.

I teach powerful feminine Tantra Methods in my Tantra Yoga, through my academy online courses, retreats and coaching. They give you energy, boost your confidence and self-esteem, deepen connection and intimacy, light up your sexiness and turn on your femininity. I also share how to have amazing Tantric sex (if you want to know!) These Tantra methods are called the lightning path because they work quickly. I promise you can have it all, vibrant energy, success, all the pleasure you want,  deeper connection and intimacy and ecstatic sex, and it won’t take you nearly 30 years like me!

Iam happy and blessed to say for the last 10 years I’ve been working in women’s empowerment through Yoga and Tantra. I’ve taught and inspired 1000’s of women, who are on a spiritual path or have a sense there’s something more. There definitely is. I’d love to show you..

I’ve studied with the most amazing teachers around the world, Sianna Sherman, Shiva Rea, Chameli Ardagh, Psalm Isadora, Dawn Cartwright, William Thomas, Yogesh Raje, Lisa Schrader. Having travelled to India since 2006, I have been initiated into a Shakti Lineage of Tantra that I love. I am so grateful and humbly bow down to all of them for lighting a torch for me to be a beacon for you. And to all the people I teach or cross paths with also are teaching me in so many ways, unconsciously.


Are you ready for transformation?

Are you ready to deepen connection and intimacy?

If yes,

Book a FREE Discovery Session 

with me to see if I can help you to tap into what you truly want in life, change your story… click the link to arrange a 15 minute skype call and let’s work it out

don’t delay – get in touch and Blossom..